Feeling a deep need for quiet, a desire to forget my computer, the phone, the fax and the ticking clock -- I decided to take some time for me. You can do that . . . it's really okay.

I'm sure you've heard your own special angel whisper as she flutters past your ear. It's a gentle call, but not to listen is to chance missing something quite wonderful. It may be a gift of only ten quick minutes-- or hours on end. It matters not. But heed the call, my friend.

That day, I heeded the call. With a good book, I curled up in my yellow swing, on the shady patio. My 'Just for Me' crystal goblet was filled with sparkling, crackling ice and blissful sun tea. The tang of fresh lemons from my own lemon tree and the sweetness of honey, made it absolutely perfect.

Let me tell you how I came to own this special crystal glass. It is a treasured possession. I took much time picking it out. Since I was not buying a set, but only one glass, I could splurge. Not worrying about cost.

I remember that day and recall the curious sales lady who followed me from crystal glass to elegant goblet, as I would hold first one and then another. Did I like the feel, the way the light danced off its design? Would I feel elegant and beautiful sipping from it?
Did it transport me to that fantasy place I longed to be?

After much contemplation, I made my decision. The one I chose was tall and beautiful and made me feel so peaceful and pampered. I saw the surprise on the sales lady's face when I bought only one. "Please, will you wrap it for me?" I asked. The gift-wrapping department boxed and wrapped my purchase as though it was being sent to a new bride.

As I was leaving the store, the sales lady came rushing up to me. "Excuse me. I just have to ask you. Who is getting this lovely gift? It must be someone very special." I smiled and told her it certainly was someone special.
We talked for a while. I could see as I explained my purchase that she began to understand.
When I left, I knew she would soon be selecting her own special 'Just for Me' glass. It would bring her hours, perhaps years, of pleasure and delight.

Life is full of small delights. Grab them all. We don't have to become lost in the chaos around us, if we choose not to be. There is a gentleness in loving oneself. Find moments just for you. Fill them with the most precious things and thoughts. Then fill your glass with something scrumptious and sink into a lavish tub of warm water and rose scented bubbles.

Or simply sit by your favorite window and dream . . . or in your swing watching as the end of the day draws near.
This time is a gift from God. Cherish it.
Draw it close and revel in it.